Back in London, caring for Mum
Sep. 7th, 2025 07:16 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Back in 2021-22, I spent 8 months in London, working from there and taking care of my mother. I'm not quite doing that yet, because she's still in hospital after a fall that broke three ribs and a collarbone. I'm living in her flat and visiting the hospital four days a week with an evening meal for her, since the hospital food is pretty poor. I also take her post in, pay her bills, and so on.
Oddly, this is more stressful than looking after her at home. I hope I'll be able to go down to three days a week soon, which will leave me more capacity for working.
She's started physiotherapy and is doing reasonably well with it, so there is a reasonable hope she'll come home this month. Mentally, she is fine, but she is 90 years old, so physical recovery isn't very fast.
Oddly, this is more stressful than looking after her at home. I hope I'll be able to go down to three days a week soon, which will leave me more capacity for working.
She's started physiotherapy and is doing reasonably well with it, so there is a reasonable hope she'll come home this month. Mentally, she is fine, but she is 90 years old, so physical recovery isn't very fast.